At this point, you need to make a determination about what you are going to do about it and if this relationship can be repaired. I am trying to figure out if she has been posting stuff or emailing to anyone.
I have tried: Searching and downloading as many apps as possible.
I'm in a two year relationship now and this is the first time anything like this happening to me.
But my point is, ignoring the issue will only make it worse. After a period, due to this ignorance, he may get the courage to bring this cheating out of the cyber world into real world. I think it is a GREAT idea to post your photo with the exact same profile as he has done on POF and see how he responds. Eventually one day I took out my photo album where there were many pictures of old boyfriends and casually flipped through it. If he comes off all defensive and accuses you of invading his privacy, you will know what kind if man you have on your hands - one who is not fully appreciative of you. You are the first prize, not the consolation prize. It's bringing me down and making me feel like there is something wrong with me, makes me feel super insecure.
Additionally, affair phone apps like Vaulty Stocks and HAA are common.
You can check but perhaps he is just speaking to friends.
A fast way to find out is to go through his messages and call log on his phone.
In the meanwhile, you might still get those email alerts when a new match has arrived.
Most of the time, you ignore them because you’ve been seeing this new romantic interest pretty regularly.